Too good to be true.
Jan. 17th, 2013 12:14 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
cloudstrife783It seems that I have learned the hard way that if something is too good to be true, it probably is.
Almost two weeks ago, the seemingly impossible happened. Someone that I had been interested in had approached me and said that she wanted to date me. Things seemed to go great, then just plummeted in a matter of days. She now seems completely standoffish and doesn't seem to want anything to do with me, giving me one word answers on everything. I know it's only been a couple of weeks, but this is almost exactly how things have gone for me in the last several years.
A couple of nights ago, we were drinking and she had brought up her abusive ex-boyfriend who used to hit her. And she had brought up someone else that she was wanting for years but he was not interested in her in that way. And all I wanted to say to her was that it was the exact same thing that she had done to me for the past 2 years. And that her abusive boyfriend was such a good guy when he wasn't drinking. And is saying this directly to me.
I have never thought that I was worthy of anyone, especially this girl. I've always wanted her, not just in the physical sense, but for everything that I have seen her to be. She has always seemed like the perfect girl for me. And I got her and I have been so happy, I never thought it would happen in a million years. And now what I expected to happen seems to be coming to fruition. Once someone knows me or has spent time with me, they are no longer interested in being with me. I'm not enough for anyone. I'm not good enough for anyone, not even myself.
If this happens, I will never trust anyone again. I have a hard enough time believing what people tell me because they tend to tell me what I want to hear to spare my feelings. And I have a great feeling that this is the case right now. I'm being lied to so my feelings aren't hurt. And what people don't realize is that telling me what I want to hear does nothing but piss me off even more. It will make me never believe a word you say to me ever again. And if this is happening, my wall will go up even higher, and I didn't think that was possible.
I'm thinking that I might as well just face the truth that I have been telling myself and that no one else believes: I'm not good enough for anyone, I'm not meant to be with anyone, I will spend the rest of my days alone on this god-forsaken planet and I might as well just start digging the grave and place one foot inside, because it's only a matter of time before the other gets shoved in. And the world will be better off for it.
Almost two weeks ago, the seemingly impossible happened. Someone that I had been interested in had approached me and said that she wanted to date me. Things seemed to go great, then just plummeted in a matter of days. She now seems completely standoffish and doesn't seem to want anything to do with me, giving me one word answers on everything. I know it's only been a couple of weeks, but this is almost exactly how things have gone for me in the last several years.
A couple of nights ago, we were drinking and she had brought up her abusive ex-boyfriend who used to hit her. And she had brought up someone else that she was wanting for years but he was not interested in her in that way. And all I wanted to say to her was that it was the exact same thing that she had done to me for the past 2 years. And that her abusive boyfriend was such a good guy when he wasn't drinking. And is saying this directly to me.
I have never thought that I was worthy of anyone, especially this girl. I've always wanted her, not just in the physical sense, but for everything that I have seen her to be. She has always seemed like the perfect girl for me. And I got her and I have been so happy, I never thought it would happen in a million years. And now what I expected to happen seems to be coming to fruition. Once someone knows me or has spent time with me, they are no longer interested in being with me. I'm not enough for anyone. I'm not good enough for anyone, not even myself.
If this happens, I will never trust anyone again. I have a hard enough time believing what people tell me because they tend to tell me what I want to hear to spare my feelings. And I have a great feeling that this is the case right now. I'm being lied to so my feelings aren't hurt. And what people don't realize is that telling me what I want to hear does nothing but piss me off even more. It will make me never believe a word you say to me ever again. And if this is happening, my wall will go up even higher, and I didn't think that was possible.
I'm thinking that I might as well just face the truth that I have been telling myself and that no one else believes: I'm not good enough for anyone, I'm not meant to be with anyone, I will spend the rest of my days alone on this god-forsaken planet and I might as well just start digging the grave and place one foot inside, because it's only a matter of time before the other gets shoved in. And the world will be better off for it.